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Spring Break, Part the Third

March 17, 2008 Dingle, County Kerry

Dingle and Dingle Bay

We depart Inch and the second act begins. The conversation meanders to the historical; the political. 1921. The revolution. The English. The civil war. There’s no official celebration of Irish independence, says Rónán, a bit indignant. I sympathize in earnest. Is it a product of the proximity to the crown? Did the vastness of the Atlantic incubate American pride? July 4th — it’s not a day to protest the British, but a day to love your country; a day for merriment to the tune of controlled explosions.

We arrive in Dingle just after sunset. The town is most aptly describable in trite terms like “quaint” and “authentic” — but that’s exactly what it is. It’s a coastal town on an impressive bay, ironically preserved partially by delicate tourism and partially in protest of it.

Our hostel is a simple place, unassuming and well located. We meet up with several of Ró’s friends who are also staying at the hostel. They’re all surfers; Redondo beach types with Irish accents. Sarah needs a shower and Rónán and I need money; she showers and we head into town to find an ATM. The cash machine does it’s thing and we’re soon filled with paper confidence.

“How about a pint?” says Rónán. We pick a pub and soon our paper confidence is exchanged for liquid confidence. There’s a trad session going on in the corner which is loud in the most pleasant of ways, so we’re forced to speak over it. The conversation meanders: travel, school, life, sailing. Did I really just meet Ró a few hours ago? Or did I always know him, as a character of my imagination resigned to faux-nostalgia of this mystic land of my ancestors?

We see the frothy bottoms of our glasses and then it’s back to the hostel for a lively dinner before we hit the town.  Saint Patrick’s Day.  Ireland. What sort of debauchery is in store for us tonight? Truthfully, not much. It’s a Monday night and, St. Patrick’s Day or not, the bars close at 11:00. And I’m fine with that. It strikes me as the ultimate act of defiance toward the American St. Patrick’s Day establishment that I’ve come to loathe. A year ago I was in New York City, taking free shots till two in the morning with Firemen and Police Officers dressed in their formal uniforms. Young female bartenders danced on the bar and poured unholy libations down the throats of yearning customers. But now the tin whistle is playing it’s last note and the patrons are saying their goodbyes as bar is wiped down. It’s been a good night, and it’s time to go.  Memories await.

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Spring break, Part the Second

March 17, 2008 – Dingle, County Kerry

Today is Saint Patrick’s Day. Back home it’s a peculiar day, a day for people whose only salient claim to Éire are the two capital letters in their last names to proclaim their heritage and corroborate it with the consumption of dark stouts. A day for the rest to wish and pretend they could make such a claim. Erin go bragh, they say, drinking to the ancestors they’ve never met. The Irish Prime Minister is the honorary grand marshal of a massive parade in Boston or Chicago or New York or some other American city that was thanklessly built by the Irish.

But I’m not home, I’m in Ireland. And the fact that I’m here when I am is a coincidence; I didn’t come to Ireland for Saint Patrick’s Day — I’m not one of the thousands of Americans that make that profane pilgrimage. It just so happens that spring break coincides with St. Patty’s, and it just so happens that the most opportune time for me to go to Ireland coincides with this holy day, and it just so happens that this holy day coincides with Holy Week, and therein lies a subtle irony that absolutely scintillates.

It’s a Monday and I hop the bus into the center of Cork City. The parade is marching through. Kids are on parents’ shoulders, girls with painted faces and everyone and everything seems to be splashed with green and white and orange. It’s immediately evident that it’s a holiday more akin to the Fourth of July than to the sloppy mess we have back home. I’m given a pin to remember those that died in the 1916 Easter Uprising and all the Irish dead.

My thoughts wander to the Saint Patrick’s Days of my childhood. Mom makes sure I’m wearing something green. You don’t want to get pinched, she says with bright eyes and a soft smile. Lunch hour rolls around and I open the small feast she has packed for me. My peanut butter and jelly sandwich is wrapped in wax paper, and to the outside of it is a green Post-It note, and on it is written in dancing green penmanship, “Happy St. Patrick’s Day! Love, Mom.”

The years pass and I begin to understand that, for many Americans, St. Patty’s is a day for the drink. But I’m Irish, aren’t I? I mean, my mother is the daughter of Irish immigrants, and the Gosnell name can be traced through Ireland, so I reckon I am pretty Irish. Why has it never been presented to me as a day of soaked revelry? Mom speaks. She speaks of how she looked forward to Lent every year, when for six weeks, Grandpa wouldn’t have a drop. She speaks of the massive stereotypes, often grounded in truths, that worked against the Irish, stereotypes which took decades to overcome. And this lack of celebration becomes a sublime point of pride for me, pride in a more transcendent Irishness.

But I’m not home, I’m in Ireland. If I were home, I’d likely be hanging out with bacchanalian Bucknellians, defending my roots. But today I prepare myself for an early evening with tea, conversation and my copy of James Joyce’s Dubliners.

Then my cell phone rings. It’s my cousin, Rónán. Truth be told, I hadn’t actually met Rónán yet — in fact, this was the first we’d ever spoken — but he’s 25 and we speak the same language and it’s clear from the get-go that he’s a cool dude. He and his girlfriend, Sarah, are going to Dingle this afternoon to — get this — surf. He invites me to come along, and subtly assures me that there will be merriment to be had. Of course, I accept.

So I exchange farewells with Tim and Mary and we hit the road in Sarah’s four door hatchback. The conversation comes naturally and it’s not long before I feel totally comfortable around my cousin and his girlfriend. He’s pursuing a master’s in oceanography at a university in Wales; she does work with the Irish school system. And all the while the Irish countryside, like the first act of an ancient drama, slides back and forth around us with a melancholy sort of beauty

We arrive at Inch in County Kerry, which has a sizable beach on Dingle Bay. Rónán nods to the south and says “On the other side of those mountains is Killeenleagh, where your grandmother is from.” Then he and Sarah put on their wetsuits and trot off toward the water.

It’s Saint Patrick’s Day, I’m in Ireland, and I’m watching my cousin surf. Surf. In Ireland. It’s the last thing I would have expected, but I’m loving it. I take pictures and breath deeply. I meander off to a little beachside cafe, order a pint of Guinness, sit down, and write.